When it comes to LGBTQ+ spaces, New York City is basically the mothership. Whether you’re looking to dance until sunrise, sip a perfectly crafted cocktail, explore queer history, or just vibe with your people, NYC has it all. From legendary spots that paved the way for LGBTQ+ rights to hidden gems you’ll want to gatekeep (but won’t because you’re better than that), this list has the scoop on where to go, what to do, and why this city is the queer capital of the world (in our humble opinion).
Stonewall
Address: 53 Christopher Street, Greenwich Village, NY
If you’re in New York City and you’re queer, you can’t not go to The Stonewall Inn in Greenwich Village. Site of the historical 1969 riots that catalyzed the gay rights movement, this spot is steeped in LGBTQ+ history you can’t miss out on. Check out one of their fabulous drag shows or pose in front of the iconic neon sign for a picture of where it all started. You can find details on upcoming events here.
Christopher Park
Address: 38-64 Christopher Street, Greenwich Village, NY
While in the neighborhood, you should also stop by Christopher Park, where you’ll find “Gay Liberation,” a permanent installation by George Segal honoring the Stonewall riots.
If you want a park tour, check out this one that lasts one hour and 15 minutes. The tour begins in the park and then takes you to The Stonewall Inn, where your tour guide will give you a detailed account of what happened in the wee hours of June 28, 1969, that kicked off the gay liberation movement.
NYC AIDS Memorial
Address: 76 Greenwich Avenue, Greenwich Village, NY
Also located in Greenwich Village, you’ll find the NYC AIDS Memorial, which honors the more than 100,000 New Yorkers who died of AIDs. A poignant reminder of the struggle so many faced, the monument offers visitors a space to reflect on the epidemic that took so many lives.
The Langston Hughes house
Address: 20 E 127th Street, Harlem, NY
Nestled in the heart of the vibrant Harlem neighborhood, The Langston Hughes House is a must-visit for history buffs, literature lovers, and admirers of Black queer culture alike. The brownstone was originally built in 1869 and was once home to Langston Hughes, one of the most celebrated writers of The Harlem Renaissance. The openly queer icon used his work to challenge social norms and celebrate the richness of Black life, and people all over the world continue to read his work today. The house now serves as a cultural hub, hosting poetry readings, performances, and events that keep Hughes’s legacy alive.
Cubbyhole
Address: 281 W 12th Street, West Village, NY
If you’re looking for an unforgettable lesbian bar experience in the West Village, look no further than Cubby Hole. The beloved spot offers cheap drinks, a cozy ambiance, superior vibes, and a healthy dose of Sapphic energy. You’ll come for the kooky decor and fun music and stay for the genuine feeling of community.
Henrietta Hudson
Address: 438 Hudson Street, West Village, NY
Speaking of Sapphic bars, Henrietta Hudson, lovingly known as “Hen’s” by regulars, is a non-negotiable on the gay bar tour of NYC. The 30-year-old establishment also offers a charcuterie bar if you’re in the mood for a quick snack while you’re out on the town. Follow their Instagram here to keep an eye on upcoming events they have going on while you’re in town. Some upcoming happenings include Queereoke nights and a New Years Eve Glam Ball!
Jacob Riis Park
Address: Rockaway Beach Boulevard, Queens, NY
Jacob Riis Park at Rockaway Beach in Queens should definitely be on your list of stops if you are in town during the warmer months. The spot has been a locale for LGBTQ+ sunbathing and cruising since the 1940s, with scenic views of The Atlantic Ocean and an unofficial clothing-optional policy at the far end of the beach since the 80s. If you’re feeling peckish after a day in the sun, stop by Bungalow Bar for crab cakes and mac n’ cheese balls.
Lesbian Herstory Archives
Address: 484 14th Street, Prospect Park, Brooklyn, NY
The Lesbian Herstory Archives in Prospect Park offers visitors an in-depth look at lesbian history preserved since the 70s. Ideal for the scholar or history-curious, this spot will leave you feeling appreciative of all the work our Sapphic foremothers did so that we can live our most authentic lives today.
Blue Stockings Book Store
Address: 116 Suffolk Street, Lower East Side, NY
For a bookworm homosexual, such as myself, stopping at LGBTQ+ bookstores on any vacation is a priority. You’ll be thrilled you made the trip to this Lower East Side haven when you peruse the stacks for classics and little-known titles alike.
Big Gay Ice Cream Shop
Address: 61 Grove Street, Greenwich Village, NY
This Greenwich Village spot will satisfy even the most insatiable sweet tooth. With rainbow sprinkles, hot fudge, caramel, and their signature ice cream flavors on the menu, you’ll be sure to leave with a smile (and maybe a few new cavities). My personal favorite is their “Salty Pimp” cone which consists of delectable vanilla soft-serve injected with dulce de leche and coated in a hard chocolate shell.
BCC
Address: 167 Graham Avenue, East Williamsburg, Brooklyn, NY
You can’t visit New York without checking out our vibrant comedy scene. Tucked in East Williamsburg, Brooklyn Comedy Collective offers comedy shows ranging from quirky clown performances to LGBTQ+ stand-up nights. Many of their shows take place at Eris, a funky performance space with cheap cocktails and a buzzy ambiance. Regardless of who you see there, you’ll want to tell all your friends at home to stop by next time they visit The Big Apple.
3 Dollar Bill
Address: 260 Meserole Street, Williamsburg, Brooklyn, NY
If you aren’t stopping by 3 Dollar Bill, are you even on a gay vacation? This massive, anything-goes venue in Williamsburg serves up epic drag shows, sweaty dance parties, and live performances that will have you absolutely exhausted (in the best way possible) by the night’s end. Famous queens like Alaska, Gigi Goode, Mistress Isabel Brooks (amongst many more) perform there regularly. With its inclusive vibe and killer lineup, it’s a must-visit LGBTQ+ nightlife destination while you’re in town.
Metropolitan
Address: 559 Lorimer Street, Williamsburg, Brooklyn, NY
Speaking of fabulous gay bars in Brooklyn, you might as well make a night out of it and also check out Metropolitan. This tried-and-true spot, which has been open since 2002, boasts two fireplaces, so it’s the ideal stop to warm up and snuggle up with a vacation fling while you sip your drinks and unwind. And for the summer, you can enjoy their large outdoor patio space to soak up the sun. You can even rent their whole second floor if you’re looking to host a private event while you’re in town!
Lips NYC
Address: 227 E 56th Street, Midtown East, NY
If you’re in the mood for a night of glitz, glam, and gag-worthy drag performances, then LIPS NYC is the place for you. This iconic drag spot combines over-the-top entertainment with delicious food and drinks in a dazzling, glitter-filled setting. Whether you’re celebrating a special occasion or want a fabulous night out, LIPS delivers unforgettable performances by some of the city’s most talented queens. If you’re in town for the weekend, end your trip with a Sunday all-you-can-drink brunch hosted by Ginger Snaps. Just make sure to bring lots of cash to tip the queens!
HAGS
Address: 163 1st Avenue, East Village, NY
Gay nightlife in New York isn’t all about drinking, though. Swing by HAGS in The East Village for delicious food made by and for queer people. Reservations open 30 days ahead of time, so I suggest getting on their list sooner rather than later to ensure you get a table while you’re in town. You can choose to indulge in either meat-focused or vegan meal options and pair them with the wine of your choosing. The only downside to visiting this spot is that you’ll miss the food so much when you go home that you may have to book another flight back to NYC.
Leslie-Lohman Museum of Gay and Lesbian Art
Address: 26 Wooster Street, SoHo, NY
As the world’s first dedicated queer art museum, The Leslie-Lohman Museum of Gay and Lesbian Art showcases a diverse range of works that explore identity, love, activism, and history in the LGBTQ+ community. With rotating exhibits and a mission to amplify queer voices, this SoHo space is a must-see for gay art aficionados. Some upcoming community programing include a queer salon series where LGBTQ+ folks can come together and discuss art and issues important to the community. Entry to the museum is free, however a $10 donation is suggested.
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